Archive for May, 2005

MY SMALLEST ACCOMPLISHMENT YET - GRADUATION

Monday, May 23rd, 2005

 

 
I graduated this weekend.
 
I know I will probably be labeled SUPER DORK after I say
this, but I don’t care. The most enjoyable part of graduation, to me,
was listening to the honorary speakers we had.

 
We didn’t have a rock star, an actor, or even a business
man speak. Instead we had two doctors address the class of 2005. They
were Dr. James T. Goodrich and Dr. David A. Staffenberg.
If many of you follow the news, you would know that these two, along
with a team of dedicated surgeons, were responsible for
spearheading the first successful separation of conjoined twins, Carl and Clarence Aguirre, in a 17-hour operation.

 
That was nothing short of a miracle and I greatly admire them for it!
 
Both had very important messages to the graduates.  Dr.
Staffenberg passionately told us to work hard, take risks, and most
importantly, never give up in the face of failure. Dr. Goodrich,
winningly charmed the graduates to look for success by first
surrounding yourself with people who are more talented and successful
than you.

 
Sitting there, I realized that as big as graduating
from college seems to be, it really isn’t! Most can read, write, and
pass a class. But will most people try to live life and do their work
in such a way that the lives of others will have benefited, no matter
how small, from their existence?

 
This is something I am now asking myself as I get ready to accept job offers. Life is such an amazing ride. 
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DO YOU BELIEVE WE CAN CONTROL OUR OWN DESTINY?

Interracial Dating

Sunday, May 15th, 2005

WHITE + BROWN = LOVE


 

I think interracial dating is a beautiful thing.
 
I get to experience Matthew’s culture and he gets to
see mine. Sure, our relationship is not always stars and butterflies.
We are continually learning and adjusting to each other, making
compromises as we go along.

 
But we have never looked at each other and defined each
other by how much or how little melanin our body produces. And we have
never looked at other people that way either.

 
If only the rest of the world could view us the same way…
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Would you date outside your race?
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I Have Such An Obsession With Pretty Things

Tuesday, May 10th, 2005
i am obsessed with pretty things!
i can’t help it. i’ll be wondering aorund the internet
or at the mall and i’ll spot something

cuteprettyfrillycolorfuldaintygirly
and all my brain tells me to do is 
MUST HAVE ITEM OR DIE
!
it’s a struggle to resist, i tell you.

            i decorate everything i have. one xample below.
            
            

my calendar is such a mess - i know!
but it’s a cute mess - hehe

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Matthew’s photography always amazes me …

            

check out his new album
"Aberration on the Lake" -
no photoshop editing
done whatsoever.
just a few camera tricks! i think it’s stunning…

            

            

            

although, in my opinion, it should be called "The Elegant Universe."

            

hehe

HOW DO I STOP THIS OBSESSION?