WHAT DO YOU DO?
note to self: living is a great thing
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN
YOUR WHOLE WORLD FEELS
LIKE IT’S OVER AND YOU
JUST WANT TO CURL UP AND DIE?
a. curl up and die
b. call your friends and ask them to help you cheer up
c. cry, cry, cry
d. fight back
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June 2nd, 2006 at 6:48 am
you fight back!
June 2nd, 2006 at 6:49 am
Fight back….and call friends
I stop and think, what is really so bad about my life and try to lists the bad things…then I try to list the good things about my life and tell myself, focus on the good and in a couple of days you will feel better and I normally do.
June 2nd, 2006 at 7:47 am
i’d probably curl up and die.. don’t call friends unless they’re your REALLY CLOSE friends that you can trust with your heart. =) cheer up daphne
June 2nd, 2006 at 10:10 am
take it one day, at a time and make the best of every situation. it’s nice to lean on friends but after awhile, you have to learn how to do things on your own because “shit happens”.
June 2nd, 2006 at 1:47 pm
hm why would i want to curl up n die? nothing is worth giving up my life for ..
but lets say i feel pretty devastated .. hm .. it would be a combination of b and d .. call my friends .. go dancing to blow off steam and date people .. if it is a guy issue .. even if its not .. dating is not a bad thing right?
=p
June 2nd, 2006 at 3:08 pm
i’ll take my lifeline Regis and call a friend. hhmmmm. you forgot to call me on my b-day, i’ve been calling you. hope all is well. actually… just keep hoping
June 2nd, 2006 at 6:06 pm
e. None of the above.
I write down what I feel until everything’s out and then when I feel better, I shred and throw the letter [wait... is this the same thing as fighting back?].
June 4th, 2006 at 12:59 am
I would fight back and later when I feel better I would call a friend to review back all the shit together.
I like your blog Daphne. Keep writing
June 4th, 2006 at 1:04 am
Take a deep breath, a step back, look around - and realize it aint that bad and that I probably have weathered worse. Some times by putting it into the proper perspective - it makes life a bit better.
The key to life is knowing “and this all too shall pass”.
June 4th, 2006 at 5:14 pm
Been there a few times…..I take stock in what I have around me, especially my friends and family. I also take some time to reach out to help a stranger in some way, any way I can.
June 4th, 2006 at 6:09 pm
Daphne, you never know what’s around the corner. That one special person may be buying a carton of milk in front of you at the store and he’s seatined to bump into you.. You pick up a piece of paper that you thought was trash and it lists Donald Trump’s bank accounts. Keep walikng thru the bad spot and you’ll get thru it.
June 4th, 2006 at 7:13 pm
I’ll pray to my Lord Jesus… He’s always there to comfort me and gave me strength to go on. I’ve been in situation where i couldn’t take it anymore (work pressure, financial problems) and i felt like ending my life. I just don’t want to care anymore. But commiting suicide is a sin. And God said: He would never leave us in a situation where it is not beyond our capability/ strength. All obstacles happened and will be are to shape us and teach us and draw us closer to Him.
Daphne, I am not sure whether you know Jesus anot, but i can assure you that once you have Jesus in your life, you will never be lonely again. He will guide you and make straight your path. Sometimes, God is calling us, but we have doubts and ignore Him. It’s our decision. Take care and be happy! God bless you abundantly!
June 4th, 2006 at 10:32 pm
B The answer is B. The sun will come up tomorrow! there nothing in the world you cant overcome. You seem smart and your beautiful things will work out for you. They always do!
June 4th, 2006 at 11:44 pm
You should consider it as part of your being tough, just always remember God will not give such a SHIT problem if you cannot surpass it,, so DAPHNE,,dont let the problem affects you…
June 5th, 2006 at 12:55 am
e. you forgot to mention run.
June 5th, 2006 at 3:23 am
Personally, I would drink with my friends first to calm myself down. Then I would fight the problem!
June 5th, 2006 at 4:23 am
Hi every body I’m new.
June 5th, 2006 at 4:41 am
I put on a hot red dress and make men jack off. oh wait. thats what you do.
June 5th, 2006 at 10:30 am
u have us to cheer u up lol
PS: whered u get that dress? lol
okay back to the point..life will throw things at u back and forth- i mean thats just life. hold on if u feel like letting go, cuz ull be surprised when u look back at life- you’ll be happy u didnt just give up.
AND ANYWAYS..GRLS ARE STRONGER THAN GUYS..NOW C’MONNN lol show dem what ur made of!!
June 5th, 2006 at 1:12 pm
Cry and fight back are the only solutions for girls. Calling friends doesnt make you feel better at the end, coz your friends have no clue of what you have been through…all they do is just “blah blah blah”….and give you a pity look, and that would actually make you feel even worse. Just cry, cry and cry…until you cry out all your sadness and realize there are more for you to do tomorrow. Then you will notice how important is to be stronger and fight back.
June 5th, 2006 at 3:57 pm
a wise person said - “in the end, it’ll be ok… if it’s not ok, then it’s not the end”… i don’t know who you are or what happened to you… but you shouldn’t give up… i’m going with “d”… fight back!!! if the fight is too much to handle on your own - call your friends to back you up
take care…
June 5th, 2006 at 4:01 pm
hey daph
i can attest to the energy that a good phone call to a great friend can give you. i did so recently to my dear rose after my first day in my new job. things felt hopeless, but she gave me the energy to think positively, and take on the world’s challenges in a better frame of mind. she gave me strength, if i needed to fight, i was ready. so my answer is B, and if necessary, D.
June 5th, 2006 at 9:19 pm
i take a “time out” to think over things, perhaps a nap and a beer, think things through, and then fight back!!! fighting back without a plan is plain stupid! = P
June 6th, 2006 at 5:51 am
call up my friends to help me fight back?
June 6th, 2006 at 6:30 am
What do we consider as a bad day? a bad hair day? Chipping a nail? Maybe we spilled coffee on our favorite shirt or maybe our bills are adding up. Have you gone hungry today or slept on the sidewalk? Consider this: You have it much better than most people. You weren’t born into a 3rd world environment. When people give us the advice that things will get better, it usually will - then you can go curl up and die in self pity. No one else feels sorry for you because no one else can really understand. You have got to find the will power and strenght to be positive about life and where you are going. If you are in a bad relationship, leave. If you have a bad job, quit. If you don’t like the friends you have, make new ones. If you can’t pay your bills, stop shopping and get another job. Do whatever you need to do to stay busy and focused on solving the problem and not dwelling on it. As Dr.Phil would say, “GIT OVER IT”!!
June 6th, 2006 at 6:54 am
if u wanna be my friend then mail me up daphne
June 6th, 2006 at 12:22 pm
As always we have choices. I choose to never give up, give in, or be anything less than who I dream of being everyday. The world may be in turmoil but my soul shall remain calm. As the world attempts crush it, it finds it can not destroy that which I have created for myself. For the world we live in is shaped by our souls.
June 6th, 2006 at 1:25 pm
Fight BACK!!! are you crazy?@# life is too wonderful to end it… besides you don’t have d right to take it back!!! have fun gurl…
June 6th, 2006 at 1:33 pm
I choose my friends and never give up. Next day will be a brighter day. I have to say Frank is right but his a bit brutal on telling the truth. It’s like his aiming for me. hahahahahahahha…
Dapne keep writting gurl u rock.
June 6th, 2006 at 2:00 pm
Very important stuff. You can change your whole existance around. Get a new job, because you can. Tell your other that you have a new found relationship with the Great one and that there will be changes made to anything you can’t possibly tolerate any longer. Volunteer at any number of organizations in cities that need attention, like homeless shelters and food banks. Tell your mother you think she is the greatest lady in the world and thank her for the wonderful job she did in raising you, because your life is your own. Go to a church service. Meet people there. Make friends in the park or if its snowing outside, in Friendster.
Blessings,
Cheryl
June 6th, 2006 at 2:06 pm
The answer is simple and easy: A. Curl up and die. Face it, you want to curl up and die, then get it over with.
June 6th, 2006 at 8:49 pm
C) and D)
I’ll cry and cry and cry, pouring my heart out…letting it bleeds … and cry some more….
Because if you hold everything inside, you won’t solve anything.. so the best/quickest way to go about things is to realise the whole damn hurt out. If I wanna scream, I’ll scream in the process too.
And when I’m done… I’ll wipe my eyes, pull my chin up, keep on walking on and fight… no matter how much I fall or how many, I’ll still fight back, no matter how numb I’ll be feeling, I’ll fight back in life until I win.
Life taught me many things, but one of those many things life taught me is to be strong, never be afraid to use my strength and power of free-will. You see, We all have choices - we either break or make. Either get stuck or move on. Either sulk or shrug. Either lick our wounds and pick on it or let it bleed, band it up and then let it heal. Either let others lead us astray, put us down and lower our energy or stand up, forgive and dare to be ourself no matter what. Either sit around waiting and letting destiny creates us or create our own destiny. I’m no gurus or some master … but this is what life taught me and I’m sharing it to you all… we have the power of free-will and love. We always have. And this is our strengths.
I may be a stranger… but my hugs to you. Whatever you’re going through… my friend I wish you all the best.
Sincere regards,
Dark-Brown-Eyed Girl
June 6th, 2006 at 9:18 pm
I’d take as many pain killers as I could cram into my stomach during one sitting. Then I would try my hardest to forget about the pain while waiting for my vision to slowly blur and my heart to start shudder while I begin convulsing and foam starts coming out of my mouth and I take a final rasping breath before dieing.
Then I would rouse myself from this daydream of my own suicide, and suddely, I wouldnt feel so bad anymore. Life is worth living….
June 7th, 2006 at 4:12 pm
Hi!! I think i understand your pain, I think i’ve been where you are and my answer would be C. I’d cry, cry, cry, cry, get angry, and then cry some more. Then i’d say “oh well” and eventually get up and wash away the tears and pull myself together. Tomorrow is another day. Then i’d try to figure out a way to fight back whatever it is that is going on. If you have GREAT and caring friends or family, then you’ll get through this rough phase because you know no matter what it is that you are going through, there are people that love you no matter what happens and will be there for you whenever you need them, even in the most deperate of times. Sadly, i can’t say that for myself, i have so many crooked 2-faced bitches around me whose personality is one of those that they take pleasure in other peoples pain because it makes them feel better about themselves, so i could never confide any of my probelms to them because they’d probably use it against me or be happy, how awful!! SO whenever i fall so much and feel like i cant get up anymore, i am the only one that i know that can pick myeslf up and dust myself off and know that maybe if im good and keep being a good person and keep doing what im doing, maybe there is a brighter future out there for me afterall. If even i can see the light hun, maybe it can help you too!! What some people are saying on here is some very good advice, its true, “Life goes on..”, whether you want it too or not!! Hope your feeling better!! Just laugh and SMILE no matter what, you’d be suprised how much of a difference it can make. =)
June 20th, 2006 at 2:14 am
Hi daphne, i was just caught up by your blog, honestly as of this moment i feel the world crumbling down on me. Honestly I didnt read this to share with u a piece of advice as others do, but as I was reading through your blog so with the comments, I think I learned so much from these and i feel a bit relieved. I would say this is the worst point of my life ever and honestly I feel like its the dead end. I feel like facing a blank wall with so many questions inside me on why I came to a point like this.Now I think I should learn to pick up the pieces, fight and move on. Hopefully, I will survive……….
June 29th, 2006 at 1:15 pm
hi its nice dress and pose to show off.
July 4th, 2006 at 2:17 am
ALL OF THE ABOVE!!!
July 19th, 2006 at 8:32 pm
fight back! coz you. . yourself know what is the best. .
July 22nd, 2006 at 1:00 am
..me..i olweiz cry…i’v used 2b a fyter b4…but tym after tym..my self-esteem got low…i hav no choice but to cry & comfort mahself…no one’s der 4 me 2 hang up 2…really i can say it’s hard 2 cry alone…but lyf goes on…en’i gotta go on wit’lyf..c”,)
August 8th, 2006 at 8:57 pm
those were good choices i probly choose b and c…
August 9th, 2006 at 1:31 am
my asnwer is simply fight back!beeyatch!
August 9th, 2006 at 2:47 am
Life is cruel. Sometimes, bad things come one after the other. Sometimes, you feel like no one cares. Hey, you are lucky, why? Have you ever find a person that has no problem? Even rich people have it too. This just mean you are normal.
September 2nd, 2006 at 9:11 am
lIfe is a pill of jokes,,learn how to laugh,learn how to dive,.collect the best Nd blow the REsr aWay..!
September 7th, 2006 at 9:57 pm
just die
September 12th, 2006 at 5:13 pm
well, Life is too deep as water in the ocean. Love is too clever.
I dont wanna feel forever blue…
September 12th, 2006 at 5:20 pm
fight up.. ofcourse…. ahme
September 12th, 2006 at 7:33 pm
first
C- cry 3 times
2nd
B- call your friends to cheer u up
3rd
D- fight back
4rth
A- now if you still dont feel well..you can curl up and die..
simple as abc’s..hehehe..PEACE
September 29th, 2006 at 12:46 am
all of the above–in sequence, a c b d..
October 2nd, 2006 at 12:36 am
good
November 2nd, 2006 at 9:52 pm
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February 3rd, 2007 at 8:39 pm
Fight back & tell friends later!
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March 24th, 2007 at 5:20 pm
the very first is to cry & cry
to lessen the burden, then have an open mind and heart, think that everything is a blessing (in disguised). Pray and leave everything to God. Never ask friends for solutions, u know better than they do, they will just complicate things.
March 24th, 2007 at 5:25 pm
the very first is to cry & cry
it helps lessen the burden, then fight back. Have an open mind and heart, think that everything is a blessing (in disguised). Pray and leave everything to God. Never ask friends for solutions, u know better than they do, just call
them to cheer u up.
April 12th, 2007 at 8:26 pm
i dunno sometimes i have no guts to fight back, i cant help but CRY! to hell.. but i chill with the frnds. pray… etc..
April 12th, 2007 at 9:11 pm
FIGHT BACK is definitely my style. Nothing is impossible, dude!
April 12th, 2007 at 9:12 pm
FIGHT BACK is definitely my style. Nothing is impossible, dude!
April 15th, 2007 at 6:48 pm
i cant do many things
but ican do something!!!!
April 15th, 2007 at 8:19 pm
hey….
don’t u know that there are so many beautiful things on you?
but sometimes in this situation….i’ll cry, then write down all things in my diary.
but i sometimes call my friends too.
well….JUst try to make everything count!
everything is for our own good , girl!
peace!!!!!